Happy Father’s Day to my Dad and to all the other Dads out there; this is your day to be celebrated and thanked for all that you do for your children!
For daughters, I think that Dads can be very special people in our lives, and I certainly know that my Dad has shaped who I am today and given me the grounding by which I live my life.
In some strange way, or because of my relationship to my Dad, I have very many of his same passions: I am a very keen gardener although I could never hold a candle to his skill.
Growing up, all five of us in the family enjoyed a different apple so Dad grafted each of our favourites onto one apple tree in the back garden. Every member of the family had their own branch with their own brand of apple – just how clever is that!
I still consider myself in my elementary gardening phase and follow the premise that unless you have killed the same plant seven different ways, then you cannot consider yourself a true horticulturist!
Just like Dad, I would put photography as one of my favourite hobbies. Dad was singularly passionate about it too and the family and the generations to come will be forever grateful. He took thousands of pictures – of the three of us growing up, family holidays, gardening shows……….and we will have these forever as a family record.
But, most of all I have inherited my Dad’s sense of humor which, first and foremost, finds hilarity in the sense of the ludicrous.
One of Dad’s favourite stories is that he and Mum were members of Chigwell Library when they lived in Essex, a county in the UK. Visiting the library, Dad asked the Librarian if she had any big books which contained lots of coloured photographs. The Librarian looked quizzically over her glasses at Dad and raised an eyebrow hinting that she wanted an explanation before the request was granted. Without batting an eyelid, Dad explained that he liked to cut-out the pictures and paste them into his scrapbook. The Librarian did not smile, and deigned not to respond and my Dad has lived off that story for years, and years!

There are very few photos of me and Dad together as usually one of us is behind the lens! I think this pic was taken in 1992 in the dining room of the Chigwell home where I grew up.




